October 26th, 2016
Somewhere between six and nine months, we began to settle more deeply into our new rhythms of life here in Germany. We’ve experienced many milestones markers; the comforts of community again, a sense of coming “home” when we returned from summer travels, and becoming a familiar face to some of the locals. I receive a smile from the bakery woman when she sees me coming now followed by a short German pronunciation lesson each time I order a new kind of bread. Its our routine!
Milestones mark time, catch our attention and remind us of the gifts we have been given. Here are a few milestones we experienced in September…
On September 11th, we celebrated our 17th Wedding Anniversary here in Germany. That afternoon, we enjoyed ice cream together at our favorite coffee shop and hung out in our own biergarten. Later in the week, we had a date downtown when Mein Mann (my husband) had a day off. The boys were in school so we didn’t need to worry about a babysitter!
Mein Mann had been talking for a couple of months about creating a biergarten in our yard. As an anniversary gift, I took on the challenge and surprised him with our own little outdoor eating area. I cleared out a space under the trees, cut back branches, hung some lights, purchased a couple of IKEA lanterns and set up tables previously stored away in our garage. Thankfully, Amy helped me move the tables. She also lent me a dirndl to wear and some beer mugs to make it even more authentic! Its pretty simple but a fun addition non-the-less!
We’ve used it a bit…catching up with friends or enjoying lazy Sunday afternoons while the boys play in the yard. The trees form a natural canopy just like the biergartens we have been to on our travels.
The First Füssball game of the Season! S was beyond excited to put on a team uniform and move with the pack on a beautiful Fall afternoon. We are grateful he started playing when he did because he was able to join his peers as they develop their beginning soccer skills together. There is also an older, German boy who helps the coach with practice. He speaks English and has been so kind to take our little guy under his wing to make sure he understands the drills. This boy definitely bridges the gap between the coach and our five-year old! At the first game, he wasn’t there and I could hear S trying to remind his German-speaking coach that he doesn’t speak German. He is learning some words though. Thankfully, she is still working with him and giving him playing time in the games too!
Sadly, E hasn’t had such a positive experience. The gap in skills was greater for him and the language/cultural piece more challenging without the help of a translator. Teams are determined by birth year. As an end-of-December baby, E is young in age and skill set. He hung in there for a while, even in the midst of some discouraging words from fellow players. But, his discouragement grew over time until it was no longer fun. He still comes along to see his brother play in games and is positive about the sport itself. Hopefully, we will be able to find something for him that will be a better fit. We are on the lookout!
Celebrating the First Year of Life! Our pastor’s son turned a year old near the end of September. He and his wife invited our family to a birthday celebration in a nearby park. We spent the afternoon celebrating their little guy and enjoying the beautiful weather. We are so grateful for this sweet family and for their leadership in our church.
The boys had a blast playing at the park as hours slipped away in the warmth of the sun.
As I write this post, the month of November is just around the corner. On November 17th, we will mark another milestone for us…our one year anniversary of living in Germany!